#BoyGirlThing: How To Handle A Crush or Secret Admirer.

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Titi: “Sade, I don’t have what to wear,
Martin is going to be in our 306 class now..
It’s the first day of the semester and I don’t want to be underdressed…
Hopefully, he sees me when we are coming in and I need to make an appearance…….”.

Sade: what’s so special about Martin, he’s not even the cutest guy for heaven sake and you are here combining colors and trying to look Gorgeous for a “regular guy”….

To sade, no other guy can be perfect like Martins. He’s all she needs in a guy at the moment, he is a perfect gentleman and he can’t do any wrong whichever way you try to convince her against her “FAIRYTALE”, it will fall on deaf ears….. Trust me!

The Secret crushes and dream lives together. Making up things that match you guys together.
Rehearsing your first conversation over again… becoming a “friend, follower, tagging, all the likes..

This is how to handle them

So, you also have this guy or girl that you’ll literally melt at the sight of,
You’d do anything so your paths cross over and over again in the space of a minute..
Some would say.. “He’s so… She’s so….”
It’s not a crime… Until it becomes an obsession…
Its completely natural so long as it’s not blown outta proportion.
But I learnt from a friend to always CALM DOWN!!!!

It’s not childish or overrated, rather it’s mature and total understanding of yourself, recognizing that it doesn’t take a guy’s acknowledgement for you to bring out all your exotic silverwares and nice dresses.

Just keep calm and calm down.

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