Friendship and Zoning #Boygirlthing

There is this tin about bois and guls like  it is with magnets and iron:  attraction. Bois chase guls, guls wants to be chased by bois :D. Well, blame it on their hormones. Either you are the chaser or the chased both players are needed in the game. Calculated moves either to get her number/Pin or to get him to ask for your number/Pin then to visit her/ get him to take you out is all part of the game sha.‬‬

 2day we are talking about friendship between bois and guls yup. Do you believe a boi and a gul could be friends without getting into each other panties?
The answer is up to you but its true.
Yes its Possible just in case you don’t believe me sorry you are so missing….. and your “mind” needs Hypo
The opposite sex has a lot to offer and you reallllllly need to have a boi friend sorry I meant a guy as a friend (am speaking to ladies) there are thingz your gul friends can’t tell you because they don’t see it (Not that they are blind tho) and the other way round, there is always a male and female perspective to a story. We are so different. Have you ever heard the saying. “Opposites Attract”? it’s one oxymorons of life. As the north pole of the magnet attracts the south, so as a guy and gul
As a guy being friends with ladies has opened me up to the realities of the feminine world. You will be surprised as how they think, you will be able to understand them better, take it from my little experience bro you don’t cross the Line into the Zone areas that is, if you have plans to further the relationship. Areas like Brother Zone, Friend Zone, Church Zone, Exam/Test Zone which is often called Academic Zone.
“Friend Zone when a girl thinks you are no longer a dating option, 😀 =D but sees you as a non-sexual entity e.g. a calendar, lamp etc.” — ayotola keka

Cure : Speak Up Quickly :> ….

Brother/Sister Zone the higher level of friend zone, here your case is worse ^(._.)^ a point of no return. when all her friends and family already knows that both of you can not and will not date. This time, you are her Chair or Car Carpet.   

Cure : Only God knows. 😐

Academic Zone for assignment, test and exams nothing more. You are a bit safe here if she does not have a boyfriend ni o.

True Confession if you can’t keep this between us don’t read it.
I have been I all of this Zones and it could be
😥 dazzall.

Thanks to Adeola mariah for editing she will be featuring next week.

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Intro to Relationshipz (#Boygirlthing)

Hi friends howdy? What’s happening ? dejifan is my name a psychologist from Oba Awon Univarsity. we might not meet one on one but through platforms like this we shall talk and rub minds, I started this category because I felt led to share a lot of experiences I have gathered over the years various relationships I have witnessed in Ogba femi and beyond. We would be talking about boys and girls a lot and the issue of s*x, we will uncover a lot together don’t form Holy-Holy it for our own good we really need to discuss the issue of sex and Pre-martial sex and many more.
As a way of introduction I won’t be writing this column alone I will be writing with a good friend of mine I haven’t told her yet sef Adeola mariah. I promise you this will not be another Church blog. It won’t be boring things and please don’t expect explicit pictures and videos here. I have seen a lot in this thing called relationship e.g ( A boy go wait 5 HOURS… Yes 5 human being hours for a girl or a girl Pays school fees for a boy and he still beats her.) and I am learning more and more by the day I must say its an interesting thing to see a guy fall in love with a girl.
Nuff said let’s get to work I will be writing/posting twice a week or once a week so keep following and you can send your questions to me via email (ifechristians@gmail.com) or follow me on twitter @dejifan or facebook: dejifan ask for a follow back or add me and send your questions and the Holyspirit will give you an answer that nah sure banker. I will also be dropping gentlemanly tips on grooming, taking a lady out, a bit of dressing, and many more interesting thingz sha. Looking forward to seeing your comments. Thanks.
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