A guy tells a girl, “I love you”. You as an individual, what comes to your mind? An hormonal female teenager will be swept away by those words and one thing leads to another and she’s in the bed of “the lover”.

This brings us to a block, what then is love? I’ve heard one person say that love is that positive strong affection that someone feels towards another. I’ve heard another person say that love is obedience.

Lets go the movies and see what they have to say concerning love. You see a lady, with long flowing hair and the right amount of flesh in the right places coupled with a beautiful face, with a man, whose abs are glistening like the sun is in it and possesses a square jaw and a handsome face. You see them kissing and professing love to one another and the audience is like “They are so in love”. As crazy as a lot of people might find Miley Cyrus is, she said the truth in one of her songs. She said:

“I used to believe love conquered all
‘Cause that’s what I’ve seen in movies
Come to find out it’s not like that at all
You see real life’s much different”
When you try to recreate love as seen on TV, you tend to lose it. Love is not about spending money, or sleeping with anyone who professes love to you. It is not about who talks to you the most, or who you think about when you want to sleep.

                      Love is Commitment…