The idea of sex, anytime it comes to my head is penetration, until I had to renew my thinking in that angle by reading. I might be a little crude in this post, but, “hey! It’s just one post.”

There is this #Nosum movement on Twitter which stands for No Sex until Marriage. I noticed the movement early this year. Every time I see a Nosum tweet or DP somewhere, it always emphasizes virginity; that is, it has based sex on just “losing virginity”.

Virginity is the top whatever that every Christian lady (and guy) is watching and holding in high esteem; but does that mean Christian singles can/should engage in every other activity (Kissing, dressing or undressing, smooching, touching and their likes) while dating?

It is possible to have sex without losing your virginity once you know that sex is more than just penetration. Many Christians have in their mind that Sex should be saved for marriage, but in the actual sense, what they are saying is that intercourse or penetration should be saved for marriage.
“The problem among many Christians is that we don’t acknowledge sexual intimacy as a whole package. Christians should take time to consider the deeper significance of something many of us have learned to treat nonchalantly.”, Pg 163; in the book “Boy Meets Girl, say hello to courtship” by Joshua Harris